The word cancer by itself in verbal conversation can strike terror in the hearts of those talking. Only people who have been told “it’s cancer” can understand the devastating implications of such a phrase. Regardless of whether your cancer is deemed treatable or otherwise, significant life changes are certain to occur. The purpose of this article is to serve as a guide through those changes, with the goal of making them a bit easier to handle.
Cancer takes quite an emotional toll on both the patient and their family. You should be checking in with your doctor regularly, as new ways to treat and even cure cancers are always being developed.
When it’s needed, be sure to speak up about your situation. Many people still hold outdated opinions on cancer and may question your ability to do your job or think that they can “catch” something from you. Have a good answer planned in advance and answer them immediately. This will help those around you to be less intimidated or fearful as you battle cancer.
If someone you know has been diagnosed with cancer, take the time to listen to them. While it can be emotionally difficult for you, listening to their fears can help to keep them positive and help them heal. Let them talk without interrupting or trying to give them advice.
When it’s needed, be sure to speak up about your situation. A lot of people still have old fashioned beliefs about cancer, and some even believe that cancer can be transmitted from person to person. Figure out your responses to these and then address them as soon as you can. It can help with the perception that others have of you and your condition during your treatment plan.
Never underestimate the power of the simple gift of listening to a friend or loved one with cancer. It can be quite difficult at times, but they need a chance to express their frustrations and feelings in a safe and loving environment. Give them the opportunity for free expression without interjecting your own thoughts and opinions.
Regardless of the specifics of your cancer diagnosis, there are many treatments and resources available to you to help make your life better. With any luck, this article can help you in your cancer battle with more knowledge and a stronger will to live.
